martes, marzo 20, 2007

It ain't over 'till it's over.

Después de 3 días de 'descanso' regresamos hoy a la actividad habitual con la novedad de que he entrado en una nueva modalidad: 'Madre soltera'... y sin auto! Pues tomé la decisión de pedirle a mi esposo que se mudara hasta que no cambie sus actitud y se decida a buscar ayuda.

La historia es muy larga, pero resulta que luego de 8 años de relación supuse que un 'break' nos caería bien pues aunque lo adoro, no estoy dispuesta a tolerar ciertas cosas. ¿Quién lo diría? El viernes en la tarde ni siquiera me pasaba por la cabeza la idea de separarnos, pero las cosas se fueron dando y luego de una conversación corta pero efectiva, le dije que creía era lo más sano.

Me siento triste, pero no deprimida. Extraño muchas cosas de él pero en cierto modo me siento más tranquila así, con todo y lo que me está implicando no estar juntos. Definitivamente la cama es muy grande para mí sola y llevar el peso de la casa completamente no va a ser fácil pero nadie ha dicho que los triunfos se alcanzan de brazos cruzados.

¿Es el final de la relación o sólo una crisis? No lo sé, él tiene la última palabra en esto, y si no cree que valga la pena luchar por todo lo que hemos logrado a través de este tiempo habrá que cerrar el ciclo. Sólo espero que no pase mucho tiempo para que decida, pues la vida pasa rápido y no estoy dispuesta a verla pasar sentada en un andén como Penélope.

Espero tengan (tengamos) una excelente semana.

60 comentarios:

Junior dijo...

Siiii!!! tengamos un buen inicio de semana, aunque me vayan a descontar un día por llegar media hora tarde porque el tráfico estaba detenido =)

Andy te quiero mucho, cuenta conmigo para lo que necesites

Besos y abrazos Junior =)

Franz dijo...

Echale ganas, sinceramente creo que hacen una bonita pareja y que deben permanecer juntos,salva lo mas que puedas esa relación, son mis mejores deseos.

Zack dijo...

No te voy a decir que ojala regresen, que todo se va a arreglar, etc.

Una relación no es juntarse, separarse, juntarse, separarse, eso no es vida, yo no creo en los breacks porque pienso que solo sacan de onda a alguno de los dos que se siente castigado (y que despues se desquitará) y le dan solo un ligero descanso al otro.

Si regresan que sea pensando sinceramente que si la pueden hacer
sino pues a separse de a deveras, solo se vive una vez y vivir asi entre brakes y discusiones no es vida.

santo dijo...

pues ahora si que me dejaste mudo andrea mira que tomar una decision asi es dificil pero como dicen las cosas buenas siempre vas a tener que hacer un gran esfuerzo y pues si se valoran ambos tendran que conciliar ya que las cosas son de los dos hay una cosa que debemos de recordar siempre mostrar apoyo ambos y superar la crisis juntos te deseo mucha suerte y que se solucione eso de la mejor manera en la cual ambos esten contentos
saludos :)

angeek dijo...

Mejor no opino. Deseo que todo salga bien para ambos y que tengas una buena semana.

Asmodeous dijo...

Espero todo se resuelva bien. Como dice Angeek es difícil opinar en algo así. Un abrazo!

Kix dijo...

Noooooooo manches!!!!

Pero yo creía que tu matrimonio era algo así como cuento de hadas! De hecho pensaba en tí cuando consideraba rehacer mi vida con alguien y tal!!

Wow... pero te entiendo, hay ocasiones en las que una no puede tolerar ciertas cosas, y no sé a qué cosas exactamente te refieres, pero yo igual ya pasé por eso. Lo importante es que te sientas tranquila como lo comentas, y que no haya sido una decisión que hayan tomado en un arranque...

Wow, sigo en shock...

Anónimo dijo...

Lo que hiciste fué un arranque, puesto que si no lo tenias pensado ni planeado y además la conversación fúe corta, no hay mucho de donde tomarlo fué un arranque!!!!

Iván

P.D. yo tambien estoy en shock!!!

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